
My Journey
I understand what it’s like to feel disconnected from your true self. Sometimes, it’s just about getting through the day, weighed down by the constant noise in your mind or the intensity of your emotions. Other times, it’s a quieter feeling — like something is holding you back from the peace, joy, or confidence that always seems just out of reach.
I know because I’ve sat with dozens of clients in their unique versions of this, and because I’ve been there too. It was my personal experience with mental health that led me to a career in the field.
When I was young, I made sense of the pain in my life by telling myself it was my fault. I thought that to feel better I just had to put my head down, try harder, and do better.
I carried that story with me through much of my life. It came with stress, burnout, impulsivity, and isolation, but it shielded me from the vulnerable emotions underneath. And because it was protecting me, I couldn’t just shake it off.
Instead, I had to do the slow work of healing. I learned to drop into my body and sit with the messiness of my feelings. I turned toward the parts of me I’d disowned. With the support of wise and kind people, I began to believe that maybe, actually, I was okay. And the more I trusted I was okay, the easier it felt to lift my head and connect with the world in ways that felt meaningful.
One of those ways has been supporting others on their journeys, as I keep walking my own. I see healing as a continual process, with ever-evolving layers of learning, unlearning, and growing. I’m honoured to hold space for that alongside you, with the wish that it helps you live from an increasingly more whole, grounded, and intentional place.
My Philosophy
When we’re navigating emotional hardship, we adapt to keep going. We develop patterned ways of being, rooted in protection and self preservation.
And there’s nothing “disordered” or “problematic” about adaptation.
It does, however, often lead to suffering. The tenderness of who we truly are becomes buried beneath our patterns, and we lose touch with others and the world.
I believe the path out of suffering is reconnection. It’s once again uncovering the tenderness of who we truly are. It’s holding close the parts of us we were led to believe weren’t welcome. It’s reaching out to other people, and opening ourselves up to being moved by the world.
To support reconnection, I believe therapy should be holistic, considering the mind, body, and context of the world we live in. And I believe it should be personal. We all have an inherent sense of what we need, and I trust in your capacity to know what’s right for you.
My Education and Training
I hold a Masters degree in Counselling Psychology from the University of Toronto (Ontario Institute for Studies in Education), and a Bachelors degree in Psychology from Western University.
I have completed advanced learning in Internal Family Systems (IFS), structural dissociation and ego state parts work, trauma-sensitive mindfulness, and embodied experiences of marginalization and social justice. I am currently in the process of completing Level 1 training with the Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario, and a member of the Ontario Society of Registered Psychotherapists. I adhere to the ethical codes set forth by these organizations.
My Identity
I am a white, cis, queer woman, and a third generation settler.